Introvert, Extrovert, or Ambivert?

Are you an introvert, extrovert, or an ambivert? Does it matter?…

Understanding how we and others recharge can improve relationships at work and at home.

A TEDx speaker on introversion and extroversion, Michael Alcee, gives a quick and clear picture of the three types: “I liken extroverts to gas-powered cars. They can easily find a gas station just down the street because of the many social options there are in our highly extroverted culture to reconnect,”…. “Introverts are like the electric-powered cars of our world, often needing to go back home to get recharged, especially since there are so few charging stations out there on the road. Ambiverts – those in between – are like hybrid cars – the Priuses of the personality set, having the best of both worlds.”*

In addition to knowing how we refuel, it’s useful to watch for misconceptions we can hold about those ‘other’ types, those we may find too lively or too quiet. Below, the characteristics of each type and potential misconceptions about them are outlined.

EXTROVERTS

Characteristics: Outgoing and energetic, enjoy mixing with others and being in stimulating situations. Talk and interact easily.

Misconceptions: Preferring to mix with others rather than being alone doesn’t mean extroverts are insecure on their own but can mean they feel under-stimulated and disconnected from their source of energy when isolated.

INTROVERTS

Characteristics: Sensitive, think and process deeply so may need more time to contribute in group settings.

Misconceptions: Needing alone time can be seen as a person being antisocial or shy but, for introverts, solo time can be a satisfying and enjoyable way to recharge.

AMBIVERTS

Characteristics: Need both types of experiences to be fulfilled; can do well in both social and solitary settings.  

Misconceptions: Can be misunderstood by extroverts and introverts. Why does someone need alone time when they can be so outgoing? How can they be so outgoing if they need alone time?

Understanding the types and avoiding misconceptions about them can help us more effectively navigate relationships at home and work as the ongoing pandemic continues to stress everyone. Not sure where you fit on the extrovert, introvert, ambivert scale? Check out these free online quizzes:

www.quizexpo.com/introvert-or-extrovert-quiz: If you don’t mind ads, this simple, colorful 20-question quiz gives you a quick introvert, extrovert, ambivert rating with basic information.

www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test: This more complex quiz will show where you are in relation to Intuitive, Thinking, Feeling, Observant, Judging, Prospecting personality types.

* Reference: Sarah Munn. Introverts, extroverts, and ambiverts. www.weightwatchers.com/ca/en/article/intoverts-extroverts-and-ambiverts